On this day 12 years ago I became a mom. They say that as soon as you see your child, all the difficulties of labor just fade away and you are instantly in love with your new little one. While that may be true for some, my experience was not quite so romantic. I had high blood pressure for the last week of my pregnancy, and endured two sleepless nights before even going into the hospital. I had intermittent contractions all night and as soon as I got up for the day thinking I was in labor, they would go away. By the third evening, I asked my husband to take me in anyway, knowing full well that if I let it go any longer, I wouldn’t have the strength to get through the birth.
I was admitted to OB triage due to the fact that I had preeclampsia and was started on Pitocin. I labored for 19 hours but still hadn’t progressed enough and the baby began showing signs of distress so they took me into the OR to perform a C-section. Once they had cut me open they said, “Well, good thing we came back here. He wouldn’t have come out anyway. His head was transverse (sideways).”
Soon after he was born they took my son to clean him up and took me into recovery for some much needed rest. I didn’t even get to bond with him until a few hours later. Our stay was extended since he was jaundiced and was not nursing well. For the first four days of his life he was fed mostly through a dropper. Not only was I unable to birth my child naturally, now I was unable to feed him.
Thankfully, as soon as we got home, he started nursing like a champ (maybe he didn’t like the hospital either) and growing like a weed. Fast forward 12 years and he is as tall as I am and wearing men’s clothing already. And his pre-teen stubbornness? Well, some say that that is because he had to fight so hard to be born.
Today’s Gospel talks about Jesus separating the sheep from the goats and welcoming into his Kingdom those who have shown charity toward their neighbor through the corporal works of mercy. Isn’t that what the true labor of a parent is all about? – teaching your children to love God and neighbor, with the hope that they will be “blessed by [the] Father” and one day “inherit the kingdom prepared for [them]”. Our greatest hope is not that they become rich and famous but that they be counted among the righteous so as to inherit eternal life with God.
So whether your child is newly born, an adult or somewhere in between, don’t forget to remind them, whether by word or example, how important it is to show kindness toward others and love God with all their heart. And no matter how many sleepless nights they may (still) cause you, never cease to pray for their salvation.
Daily Reading
Second Sunday of Lent
Reading I Genesis 15:5-12, 17-18 The Lord God took Abram outside and said, “Look up at the sky and count the stars, if you can. Just so,” he added, “shall…
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Second Sunday of Lent
Reading I Genesis 15:5-12, 17-18 The Lord God took Abram outside and said, “Look up at the sky and count the stars, if you can. Just so,” he added, “shall…