Today’s Gospel is one used by most non-Catholics to prove that the Blessed Virgin Mary was not a virgin, let alone a perpetual virgin. I’m sure some of you have heard a different translation of the same Bible passage. In some cases the meaning becomes blurred. In this case, the word “brother” does not mean blood brothers. If that were true, we certainly would have known about them and their names. 

In the original language the same word had different meanings. Throughout the years I have had a few friends who were so close they were like brothers. I even called them “brother”. I do not use that term lightly! Similarly, Jesus is saying here that his family is not limited to blood relatives. To believe in him is to belong to his family. Jesus said, “My mother and my brothers are those who hear the word of God and act on it.” That’s how much he loves us! 

But what about the Blessed Mother?  There are a select few saints who heard through personal revelation that Mary remained a virgin after Jesus’ birth. Although we are not bound to believe private revelation, the perpetual virginity of the Blessed Virgin Mary is a dogma in the Catholic and Orthodox churches, so we know it’s true! But how is that possible? 

Just recently I heard an explanation that really made sense to me. Do you remember the time that Jesus appeared to the Apostles in the upper room after his resurrection even though all the doors were locked? They thought they were seeing a ghost. Try to imagine for a minute being in that room when He came in. He looked like Jesus, but how could that be possible? When something happens and there is no explanation, especially in the spiritual realm, we simply have to realize that God can do anything he wants. That means, anything! 

The author of that commentary drew a parallel between Jesus’ birth and his appearance in the upper room. Jesus passed through everything to get there. And Jesus passed through Mary. This should give us something to ponder. He is very much above our understanding. God is awesome!

Serving with joy!

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