We all come to relationships and circumstances with our own perspective, seeing things through our own eyes. Our perspective about people or situations affects what we think and how we feel about them and how we react to them. No one has the benefit of complete objectivity, or of seeing, thinking, and feeling something exactly as another does. In addition, one person may be experiencing something or struggling with something that another has no awareness of.

We can easily be in error in our judgment, and it is beneficial to come to someone with compassion and a desire to understand prior to making suggestions and certainly before condemning them.

The reverse is also true. Others cannot see or feel what I do. They don’t experience my life through my eyes. And when someone says something to me that comes from a place of misunderstanding, it can feel very hurtful and irritating.

This is what struck me about today’s Gospel account. The people of Nazareth thought they knew Jesus. “Is he not the carpenter, the son of Mary?” Did we not watch him as he grew? Did he not play with our children? Buy from us in the market? Build furniture for our homes? How is he speaking to us in this way, with such wisdom? No, it cannot be. He is only Jesus.

How this must have hurt Jesus who, as God, wanted to pour Himself out upon the people He knew and loved! He did not want to exclude anyone from His work of love and salvation, but they excluded themselves through their lack of faith and by rejecting who He really was.

Jesus is our example. In this situation, He remained calm and spoke the truth. He did what He could and moved on, undoubtedly still loving those very people and asking the Father that they would come to understand and believe. Perhaps He prayed for them as He later prayed for His executioners, “Father, forgive them, they know not what they do” (Luke 23:34).

Jesus also did not let their lack of understanding stop Him from doing what He knew the Father was asking of Him. He continued to preach, heal, and teach about the Father’s love, then to die for us.

That is good for us to remember as well. We are to discern with God what He would want us to do and then be faithful. It is far too easy to allow a desire to please people or a fear that others will think poorly of us to discourage or intimidate us. Others may misunderstand us. They may judge us. But our job is to follow God and do His will, to love Him and love others, despite what people may think of us.

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Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Reading I Jeremiah 17:5-8 Thus says the LORD:             Cursed is the one who trusts in human beings,                         who seeks his strength in flesh,                         whose heart turns away from the LORD….

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