
Today’s Gospel theme is a familiar one. Framed in mercy, Jesus tells us to stop judging. He uses a clear directive: Stop. It is a word that conveys an urgency, a need. Something must cease immediately.
It is probably natural to take Jesus’ words and apply them as an examination of conscience. How have we fallen short in the call to be merciful to others? How have we judged wrongly, condemned harshly? But, perhaps today we could consider a different angle.
Often it can appear that we are guilty of projecting onto others what, in fact, we are harshly imposing on ourselves. And it is very hard to cease doing unto another what we unceasingly do to ourselves. Maybe today, then, we let ourselves be the object of Jesus’ words.
Let’s imagine Jesus directing his words to us. And let us imagine that He is speaking with a very tender, patient tone. It might sound something like this: “Beloved, Please stop judging yourself. You are not a just judge. I am. So, please stop. Please stop condemning yourself. That is a trap. I did not come to condemn you, I came to free you, to save you. So, please stop. And, please forgive yourself for falling short. I have already forgiven you. I love you. You can forgive yourself.
Finally, I ask you to be merciful to yourself, just as the Father, who always shows mercy, is merciful to you. Why deny to yourself what your Father is so freely offering you?”
It’s easy to want to “work out” our relationships with others, but maybe the first relationship to consider is the one we have with ourselves. Invite Jesus to help you there. Let His words direct you today to pour out a good measure upon your own tender human heart.
El tema del Evangelio de hoy es conocido. Enmarcado en la misericordia, Jesús nos dice que dejemos de juzgar. Nos da una orden clara: “No juzguen…no condenen…” No es una palabra que transmite urgencia, necesidad. Algo debe cesar de inmediato.
Es natural que tomemos las palabras de Jesús y las apliquemos como un examen de conciencia. ¿En qué hemos fallado en el llamado a ser misericordiosos con los demás? ¿En qué hemos juzgado mal, en qué hemos condenado con dureza? Pero quizás hoy podríamos considerar una perspectiva diferente.
A menudo parece que proyectamos en los demás lo que, en realidad, nos imponemos con dureza a nosotros mismos. Y es muy difícil dejar de hacer a otros lo que constantemente nos hacemos a nosotros mismos. Quizás hoy, entonces, nos permitamos ser el objeto de las palabras de Jesús.
Imaginemos a Jesús dirigiéndose a nosotros. E imaginemos que nos habla con un tono muy tierno y paciente. Podría sonar algo así: “Amado, por favor, deja de juzgarte. Tú no eres un juez justo. Yo lo soy. Así que, por favor, para. Por favor, deja de condenarte. Eso es una trampa. No vine a condenarte, vine a liberarte, a salvarte. Así que, por favor, para. Y, por favor, perdónate por tus fallos. Yo ya te he perdonado. Te amo. Tú puedes perdonarte. Finalmente, te pido que seas misericordioso contigo mismo, así como el Padre, que siempre muestra misericordia, es misericordioso contigo. ¿Por qué negarte a ti mismo lo que tu Padre te ofrece tan generosamente?”
Es fácil querer “arreglar” nuestras relaciones con los demás, pero quizás la primera relación que debemos considerar es la que tenemos con nosotros mismos. Invita a Jesús a que te ayude en eso. Deja que sus palabras te guíen hoy para derramar una buena medida sobre tu propio corazón humano tan sensible.
Raine Pyne is a longtime public school educator. She is married to Greg, who is also an educator. They have five sons, three dogs, and one cat, plus hundreds of adolescent students and countless stacks of books. Raine is a former parish catechist and women’s retreat leader. She is a student at the Theology of the Body Institute and a member of the Word on Fire Institute’s Writing Community. She is passionate about learning, language, and the ever deepening journey of faith.
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