Part of my job at my parish is forming and preparing the eighth grade students for the Sacrament of Confirmation. I enjoy the preparation program that we use and I often find myself learning right alongside the Confirmation candidates.
One line from a recent lesson’s video has really stuck out to me lately. While talking about the gift of the Holy Spirit called fortitude, the message to the candidates went a little something like this, “You probably aren’t called to be a martyr, to die for your faith. It’s more likely that you’ll be asked to simply stand up for your faith and say that you believe in Jesus Christ.”
To an average eighth grade student, that’s a terrifying possibility. Even for those who attend Catholic grade schools and high schools, faith isn’t often talked about outside of religion class. It’s not daily lunchtime conversation. It’s not brought up on the bus. And, even if faith is brought up, often students don’t know what to say or how to say it … or they’re too scared to speak up.
It’s not just today’s young people, though. Many adults feel the same way – that they’re ill equipped to speak eloquently and confidently about the faith or they are silent in fear of rejection and ridicule.
That’s where I take comfort in today’s Gospel passage: “The stone that the builders rejected has become the cornerstone; by the Lord has this been done and it is wonderful in our eyes.” Trials and tribulations are part of the Christian life, as much as we may wish they weren’t. There are (or will be) times that we face rejection and times when enemies try to drag us down.
But we should not fear – because the Lord is with us in these challenges. He will overcome, for He is more powerful than our difficulties. He is more merciful and loving than our enemies. And He will give us all the strength we need to stand up in and publicly proclaim our faith in Jesus Christ.
May you be strong in the face of trial, brothers and sisters, and may you call upon the Lord for help.
Daily Reading
Memorial of Saint Boniface, Bishop and Martyr
Readings for the Memorial of Saint Boniface, bishop and martyr Reading 1 Tb 1:3; 2:1a-8 I, Tobit, have walked all the days of my lifeon the paths of truth and…
Saint of the Day
Saint Norbert
Saint Norbert founded the order with the most difficult name to pronounce and spell—Praemonstratensians. Perhaps that’s why they go by the name of Norbertines. But this order was anything but hard to appreciate when it comes to the work they did. They were very effective in converting heretics and reconciling enemies.
In today’s Gospel we read perhaps the most quoted verse of Scripture, that “God so loved the world that he gave his only son, so that everyone who believes in him might not perish but might have eternal life.” It’s printed on t-shirts, coffee mugs, those fancy picture frames that everyone has hanging in their bathroom, and on pencils to hand out to youth groups.
I wonder if this is one of those verses that is so often quoted that it has lost some of its importance and just become a commonplace phrase. But today, on the Solemnity of the Most Holy Trinity, let’s take some time to really dive deep into what this passage means. If we go all the way back to the beginning we see Adam and Eve in the garden. They have been given everything they could possibly desire, but through an act of disobedience and selfishness, they lose their inheritance. They want to be God and in trying to become like him, they turn their back on the very One they want to imitate.
God, of course, knew this was going to happen and had a plan from the beginning. The irony is that God wanted to allow all of us to share in his divine life. He wanted us to participate fully and intimately in his very divinity. This was the desire of Adam and Eve, to be more like God, but they tried to get there through disobedience, while Christ brings us there by his obedience to the Father. I have shared this quote from the Catechism (221) before that states, “God himself is an eternal exchange of love, Father, Son and Holy Spirit, and he has destined us to share in that exchange.”
Adam and Eve lost their inheritance through disobedience. Jesus gave us our inheritance back by his obedience to the Father and offers to make us partakers of the divine life through the Holy Spirit. It’s the ultimate comeback story. This is why John 3:16 is such an important verse. Not because it can sell more merchandise to the Christian world than any other verse, but because it tells us of God’s plan right from the beginning to perfect us.
This perfection does not come without a cost. As Scripture says, “We have been purchased for a price.” That price is the death and torture of Jesus Christ, who became man in order to to allow us to fully participate in the life of the trinity. What Adam and Eve did in the beginning, and what we continue to do today through our sin, can only be rectified by God stepping in and saving us. Today, let’s rejoice that he has.
From all of us here at Diocesan, God bless!
Daily Reading
Memorial of Saint Boniface, Bishop and Martyr
Readings for the Memorial of Saint Boniface, bishop and martyr Reading 1 Tb 1:3; 2:1a-8 I, Tobit, have walked all the days of my lifeon the paths of truth and…
Saint of the Day
Saint Norbert
Saint Norbert founded the order with the most difficult name to pronounce and spell—Praemonstratensians. Perhaps that’s why they go by the name of Norbertines. But this order was anything but hard to appreciate when it comes to the work they did. They were very effective in converting heretics and reconciling enemies.
“I sought wisdom openly in my prayer, I prayed for her before the temple…”
Conversation often seems like a lost art. In order to engage in true dialogue, we have to be willing to suspend our own thoughts, preconceived notions and perceptions to really listen and hear what another is thinking. We have to give up the need to be right and allow ourselves to open up and be vulnerable to someone else. That is a scary thought in this world, where shouting down the opposition and using influence and social power is often the path to getting what you want.
Sirach teaches us another way. We are shown the value of pursuing wisdom. In making the search for wisdom the core of our lives, we are not merely seeking knowledge. Wisdom is not a prize to be grasped at but a formation of our soul, that innermost being given to us from God, that essence which makes us, us. In the pursuit of wisdom, our soul is oriented to God and aligns itself with him who is the Way, the Truth, and the Life. It is an openness, walking through the gate and along the level path.
Perhaps this is why our efforts at evangelization so often fall short. We are a linear people. We are so convinced that others should come to know Jesus and will find fulfillment in the fullness of faith in the Catholic Church, that we spend our time attempting to convince others rather than listening. We are intent on transferring knowledge, but not allowing wisdom to form our souls.
To be fair, reaching out in today’s world is a very, very scary situation. There are many, like those who questioned Jesus in today’s Gospel, who appear to want to have an open conversation, but whose true intent is to use words to capture and ensnare. Jesus gives us a model. While always remaining open to conversation and inviting others into the Kingdom of God, he does not get caught up in questions which are meant to sidetrack. His focus is on building the Kingdom of God, he will not be turned from that task by hostile questioning.
Our work is to remain open, to pursue wisdom and then to rest in that wisdom so that we may share her path with others. The Catechism tells us that it will take patience. (CCC 854) We don’t need to convince others that they need Jesus. That is the work of the Holy Spirit. Our role is to continue to form ourselves in wisdom so that we are capable of conversation. We must be able to engage in sincere dialogue, including a willingness to listen with openness and vulnerability. Only when we truly listen, will those around us begin to listen to us. They will listen, not only by hearing our words but by learning from the actions of our lives.
Daily Reading
Memorial of Saint Boniface, Bishop and Martyr
Readings for the Memorial of Saint Boniface, bishop and martyr Reading 1 Tb 1:3; 2:1a-8 I, Tobit, have walked all the days of my lifeon the paths of truth and…
Saint of the Day
Saint Norbert
Saint Norbert founded the order with the most difficult name to pronounce and spell—Praemonstratensians. Perhaps that’s why they go by the name of Norbertines. But this order was anything but hard to appreciate when it comes to the work they did. They were very effective in converting heretics and reconciling enemies.
I suspect that if St. Mother Teresa commanded a mountain to be taken up and cast in the sea, the mountain would waste no time to get going. Such was the faith of this amazing woman.
I learned about her flying novena when I led a small group of women through Fr. Timothy Gaitley’s 33 Days to Marian Consecration. It seems this novena – called a flying novena because she prayed the Memorare nine times in a row instead of nine days or nine hours in a row – was one of the more efficacious weapons in her spiritual arsenal. So great was her faith that she chased the ninth Memorare with a tenth of thanksgiving for the answered request. I can imagine her tiny self next to a giant mountain, praying the ten Memorares and the mountain getting up and dashing off to the sea.
I have experienced the power of the flying novena often and I consider it the prayer that is always answered. I have learned that it is good to have this unwavering and childlike trust in God’s providence. It’s not presumptuous – it’s faith. Our heavenly Father is a generous God who loves to answer our prayers. We just need to believe that. We hear it from Jesus himself in today’s Gospel:
“Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you receive it, and you will.”
How could we ever doubt? Whether it is St. Mother Teresa’s flying novena or a prayer from your heart, believe. Believe that God your Father desires to give you what you ask for. Believe in his generosity and faithfulness.
Pope Francis once said that God never tires of forgiving us, it is we who get tired of asking for forgiveness. I believe that God also never tires of giving to us; it is we who get tired of asking. The next time something weighs heavily on your heart, try a flying novena and don’t forget to include the tenth Memorare in thanksgiving for your answered prayer.
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thine intercession was left unaided. Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto thee, O Virgin of virgins, my mother; to thee do I come, before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and answer me. Amen.
Daily Reading
Memorial of Saint Boniface, Bishop and Martyr
Readings for the Memorial of Saint Boniface, bishop and martyr Reading 1 Tb 1:3; 2:1a-8 I, Tobit, have walked all the days of my lifeon the paths of truth and…
Saint of the Day
Saint Norbert
Saint Norbert founded the order with the most difficult name to pronounce and spell—Praemonstratensians. Perhaps that’s why they go by the name of Norbertines. But this order was anything but hard to appreciate when it comes to the work they did. They were very effective in converting heretics and reconciling enemies.
Sometimes your tongue just gets away from you, doesn’t it? I know mine does. I just feel the “need” to complain about that one little thing and before I know it, I’m ranting about something else and something else and something else. Once the seed of negativity is sown, it is very hard to uproot it.
And the funny thing is, many of the things that bother us are really based on assumptions. “I just know when she looked at me that way she was thinking how awful my haircut looked.” “She knows what kind of morning I’ve had, and there she goes getting upset at me and ruining my afternoon too!” “I know that comment was aimed at me. Surely they gossiped about me behind my back and that’s why they said that.” “He wasn’t kidding. He was being passive aggressive.”
Our society has become highly non confrontational. Instead of calling someone, we text them. Instead of having a conversation in person, we chat on social media. Instead of clarifying with someone what we think to be true, but aren’t really sure is true, we create realities in our minds that may or may not even be factual. And then we let our thoughts wander farther and farther until we fall into the pit of anger or despair.
If only I had the wherewithal in these moments to call on God in His infinite wisdom to muddle through my thoughts and feelings. Our First Reading tells us: “The Most High possesses all knowledge…He makes known the past and the future, and reveals the deepest secrets. No understanding does he lack; no single thing escapes him.”
He knows what that person was looking at, and it wasn’t your hair. It was their concern that you looked sad. He knows that the other person had just as bad a morning as you had and just happened to blow up while you were standing there. He knows that that comment was meant for the good of the team and not at anyone in particular. He knows that that person really was just kidding.
So instead of allowing negativity to seep in and Debby Downer to overtake our day, maybe we can try to remember to thank God for all His blessings and exclaim together with the Old Testament writer: “How beautiful are all his works!” And then as we ask God for forgiveness from our ungrounded assumptions, may we exclaim with blind Bartimaeus from today’s Gospel, “Jesus, Son of David, have pity on me!”
Daily Reading
Memorial of Saint Boniface, Bishop and Martyr
Readings for the Memorial of Saint Boniface, bishop and martyr Reading 1 Tb 1:3; 2:1a-8 I, Tobit, have walked all the days of my lifeon the paths of truth and…
Saint of the Day
Saint Norbert
Saint Norbert founded the order with the most difficult name to pronounce and spell—Praemonstratensians. Perhaps that’s why they go by the name of Norbertines. But this order was anything but hard to appreciate when it comes to the work they did. They were very effective in converting heretics and reconciling enemies.
We read in today’s Scripture, “Blessed are you who believed that the Lord would fulfill what was spoken to you.” The Blessed Mother responded to the invitation by God to be the Mother of God, the Second Person in the Trinity, Jesus. After the Annunciation made by the Angel, who had told her that her cousin was pregnant, Mary made haste to visit Elizabeth in the hill country of Judah.
The Church celebrates this beautiful moment in the life of Christ as the mother of God visits Elizabeth. This event has been a meditation for the whole Church as the second Joyful mystery of the rosary known as the Visitation. Elizabeth was older and thought to be past child-bearing years. She suffered from many years of infertility and longing to have a child. While Mary, a young virgin in the prime of her life, was selected to be the Mother of God. We can only imagine how Mary’s beauty and grace would be remarkable. Despite their age difference and the circumstances that revolved around these pregnancies, they trusted in the Lord and rejoiced over their children. They shared a unique role in Salvation History. St. John the Baptist would be the for-runner for Christ. Filled with the Holy Spirit, he lept from inside his mother’s womb, and pointed to the significance of Jesus. I can hear the laughter and joy as this child proclaimed God’s glory long before many knew that Mary was with child.
This Scripture is an essential message to us in modern times, as unborn children are not always cherished, loved, and even seen as people. Even though they are persons, they are not protected from death through abortion. We can appreciate the significance and beauty of God’s plan being revealed through unborn children. God revealed His plan for our salvation, in many ways, from the conception of Christ and throughout His entire time on earth. Our journey also includes our time in our mother’s womb until our natural end of life in God’s timing.
Mary is the new Eve, for she was not spoiled by Original Sin but instead preserved to be the Mother of God. She shows us her humble, loving and serving heart through her desire to proclaim the wonders of God in all moments. May we allow the Blessed Mother’s gentleness and kindness to be our godly example throughout our day. How can we invite the Blessed Mother into our life in a new way so that we can encounter her love? By simply dedicating our hearts to her Immaculate Heart, and asking for her guidance and intercession. The Blessed Mother wants to bring her son to our hearts, homes, and our own “hill country.”
Daily Reading
Memorial of Saint Boniface, Bishop and Martyr
Readings for the Memorial of Saint Boniface, bishop and martyr Reading 1 Tb 1:3; 2:1a-8 I, Tobit, have walked all the days of my lifeon the paths of truth and…
Saint of the Day
Saint Norbert
Saint Norbert founded the order with the most difficult name to pronounce and spell—Praemonstratensians. Perhaps that’s why they go by the name of Norbertines. But this order was anything but hard to appreciate when it comes to the work they did. They were very effective in converting heretics and reconciling enemies.
Our society is constantly pushing for each individual to define happiness, love, and success for themselves, often without regard for the effect on their neighbor. What we find at the extreme of this thinking is a society based on tolerating our differences with one another, without ever finding our common ground. We have lost a shared set of values which defines the common good. We have lost the very Catholic way of thinking which embraces “both-and”. We can work together for the common good and value the basic dignity of every individual as created by God.
Today’s reading can help us reorient ourselves by embracing something above and beyond ourselves, something immutable and all powerful. Something which isn’t swayed by time and passing fashion.
God’s law is written deeply inside each and every one of us. God’s law gives us a shared definition of happiness, love, success, all while still caring for the dignity of each person. When we live in accordance with His law of love, we are paying God an oblation of the highest sort. We are offering our will as secondary to His divine will.
When we do this, when we offer the difficult in the moment for the good in the eternal, we are giving such a little bit of ourselves. What God promises us is so much more!
“Amen, I say to you, there is no one who has given up house or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or lands for my sake and for the sake of the Gospel who will not receive a hundred times more now in this present age: houses and brothers and sisters and mothers and children and lands, with persecutions, and eternal life in the age to come.” We don’t live for this world, we live for the next.
Daily Reading
Memorial of Saint Boniface, Bishop and Martyr
Readings for the Memorial of Saint Boniface, bishop and martyr Reading 1 Tb 1:3; 2:1a-8 I, Tobit, have walked all the days of my lifeon the paths of truth and…
Saint of the Day
Saint Norbert
Saint Norbert founded the order with the most difficult name to pronounce and spell—Praemonstratensians. Perhaps that’s why they go by the name of Norbertines. But this order was anything but hard to appreciate when it comes to the work they did. They were very effective in converting heretics and reconciling enemies.
Godspell, the musical from 1973, is an assault to one’s eyes with its rainbow-haired Jesus and 70’s nonconformist vibe. It marries two different ways of looking at the world: the love anyone, anytime, anywhere hippie milieu with the story of our eternal salvation through Christ’s sacrifice. It feels uncomfortable, like strange bedfellows, a relationship that shouldn’t work. Yet, it does, primarily because it mines its material directly from the Gospel of Matthew. Even though the hippie culture has gone away and our eyes can rest, the Gospel story never gets old or dated.
I was introduced to this play when my high school performed it and it had a profound effect on me for one reason (not the earworm songs the cast breaks into unexpectedly). It was the first time I’d considered that the apostles were people.
Catholic education in the 70’s and 80’s lacked a lot, including introducing children to the person of Jesus. What I was startled to realize while watching the second to last scene where Jesus dies, was that the apostles were people and their friend died. The idea that a friend can die was unknown to me at the time.
As I watched kids I was friends with play out the scene, I started to get it. Their friend died. Died. They didn’t know what we know, that in three days he’d be back. Death is final and the man they’d spent three years with was gone.
It wasn’t until many years later that I began to know Jesus as a person and a friend. Then his crucifixion became more than the death of their friend but of mine also. When I read today’s Gospel and picture Mary and John at the foot of the cross it becomes more real and somehow more important to imagine myself there with them because even though he died over 2000 years ago, it wasn’t just for them. It wasn’t just because of the sins of the people then. It was for me and because of my sin.
Imagining ourselves there is important because it helps us keep this event from becoming routine. When it’s just another story about a good guy a long time ago, we lose the significance. Every year we must take the time and emotional effort to put ourselves there and remember he died for us and give him thanks and glory. We are not in a musical, we are in life and this is important.
Daily Reading
Memorial of Saint Boniface, Bishop and Martyr
Readings for the Memorial of Saint Boniface, bishop and martyr Reading 1 Tb 1:3; 2:1a-8 I, Tobit, have walked all the days of my lifeon the paths of truth and…
Saint of the Day
Saint Norbert
Saint Norbert founded the order with the most difficult name to pronounce and spell—Praemonstratensians. Perhaps that’s why they go by the name of Norbertines. But this order was anything but hard to appreciate when it comes to the work they did. They were very effective in converting heretics and reconciling enemies.
In the movie, Captain America, Steve is a young man of strong character who wants to work for justice in the world, in spite of his evident lack of bulk and brawn. Steve has everything going for him except the physical strength to carry out his laudable ambitions.
His situation reminds me of the apostles before Pentecost, before the promised Holy Spirit descended upon them in the upper room as He did in today’s First Reading. The apostles loved Jesus. Their intentions were golden. These earnest men had learned a great deal by being with Our Lord, and it was their desire to continue His life-saving mission. But they were too feeble.
In the case of the earliest Church leaders, it wasn’t physical strength they needed, it was the courage, the love, and the power to do all that Jesus had commissioned them to do. Now, in the upper room, Christ keeps his last promise to his beloved friends and sends them the Holy Spirit. Similar to the way Steve was changed in mere moments through a scientific experiment into the buff and beautiful Captain America, the apostles were filled with the Holy Spirit and utterly transfigured. This historic moment wasn’t just a radical turning point in the lives the apostles, it was the birth of the Church. Furthermore, ever since that moment, every human being has had the opportunity to share in God’s Divine life through the Spirit. The power Pentecost unleashed on the world was tsunamic in the best way possible.
Again and again, the Catechism of the Catholic Church refers to the action of the Holy Spirit: He animates all creation, awakens faith, enables communication with Christ, helps man grow in spiritual freedom, is the master and source of prayer, is the principal author of Scripture and so on. The Catechism also highlights the gifts of the Holy Spirit (1831), His fruits (1832), and His charisms (2003).
It is breathtaking to think that, at the moment of our baptisms, the third Person of the Trinity comes to dwell in us and bestows supernatural gifts upon us. If we cooperate with the movement of the Spirit in our lives and in our souls, we will receive whatever we need to grow in holiness and minister to those around us. He wants to empower us. The apostles, who desired the Holy Spirit, awaited Him eagerly, and responded whole-heartedly to His inspirations, are models for us to imitate.
The kind of decision that the character of Steve in Captain America had to make was one that faces all of us in the spiritual realm. Are we content to be spiritually puny, reticent to tap into Divine power? Or are we ready to take our good intentions and our knowledge of Christ to the next level, out of love of God and neighbor, by allowing the Holy Spirit to even more radically transform us? The world awaits our answer.
Daily Reading
Memorial of Saint Boniface, Bishop and Martyr
Readings for the Memorial of Saint Boniface, bishop and martyr Reading 1 Tb 1:3; 2:1a-8 I, Tobit, have walked all the days of my lifeon the paths of truth and…
Saint of the Day
Saint Norbert
Saint Norbert founded the order with the most difficult name to pronounce and spell—Praemonstratensians. Perhaps that’s why they go by the name of Norbertines. But this order was anything but hard to appreciate when it comes to the work they did. They were very effective in converting heretics and reconciling enemies.
Today’s Gospel starts out with one of our favorite people in scripture, Peter. He is one of my heroes. Why? Because if he could make it, I’ve got a good chance to make it also!
Apparently, Peter was watching the disciple John follow Jesus. I am sure that everyone at the Last Supper saw John laying his head on Jesus’ chest. Today that might be considered somewhat scandalous. What would you think if you walked into the Last Supper and saw that in person? What would your first reaction be? It might be hard to explain. We now know that the one “whom Jesus loved” was John. He was all in!
Why would Peter ask Jesus such a question? One could think that Peter might be somewhat jealous of the relationship between John and Jesus. Remember, that sometimes there were power struggles between the disciples. I’m not saying that there’s one here but Jesus straightens it out real quick. He basically tells Peter to back off because it’s no concern of his. Jesus makes it clear that Peter’s job is to follow Jesus and not to worry about John. Somehow Peter took away from that conversation that he thought Jesus said that John would not die.
This is just a small example of things going haywire by flapping one’s jaw. It looks like this was one of many problems that Jesus had to handle. What can we glean from this? Have you ever had the experience of walking out of the confessional and within fifteen seconds some crazy thing went through your head and you felt like you should turn around and walk back in. I confess that it has happened to me.
So, in this new year 2023 once again we have the opportunity to make some healthy changes in our lives. Have you taken the time to start the new year with some character building? In other words, making changes to your character. It can be a difficult process. Why? Because, the body, mind, and spirit are so used to doing things a certain way that they do not want to change. I’m sure you’ve heard the words “muscle memory”. That is the closest thing that I can think of in regard to making a character change. If you are ready to dive into the area of character change, I suggest lots of prayer. And hang in there! You can do it with God’s help!
We all know where Peter ended up and that gives us great hope that we can make great strides in making character changes that are pleasing to God!
Serving with joy!
Daily Reading
Memorial of Saint Boniface, Bishop and Martyr
Readings for the Memorial of Saint Boniface, bishop and martyr Reading 1 Tb 1:3; 2:1a-8 I, Tobit, have walked all the days of my lifeon the paths of truth and…
Saint of the Day
Saint Norbert
Saint Norbert founded the order with the most difficult name to pronounce and spell—Praemonstratensians. Perhaps that’s why they go by the name of Norbertines. But this order was anything but hard to appreciate when it comes to the work they did. They were very effective in converting heretics and reconciling enemies.