“[Y]ou will grieve, but your grief will become joy.”

Christ’s words here are part of the Last Supper Discourse, His final words of wisdom for His Apostles at the Last Supper, just before His death on the Cross. He is confirming that they will experience anguish like His – not only at His death, but also later in life, when all of them except John the Beloved would become martyrs. 

And surely, as Our Lord spoke these words, He was also thinking of His own Passion. In mere hours, He would be in the Garden of Gethsemane, pleading with the Father on His knees to let the cup of suffering pass. And then He would accept it. In the twenty-four hours after that, He would be betrayed by one of His closest friends, sentenced to death in place of a murderous rebel, scourged and mockingly crowned, driven through the streets in shame, and crucified between two criminals, abandoned by all His Apostles except John.

Christ knew all this, and yet He accepted the cup of His Passion willingly, because He loves us desperately, and His joy in saving us outweighs His grief. He was in anguish during His hour, yet I wonder if, like a woman in labor, He too “no longer remembers the pain” due to the joy He experiences when even one soul chooses to love Him and follow Him. His is a joy that endures beyond all grief. And He promises the same for us. 

“Amen, Amen, I say to you.” The word “Amen” means “it is so” or “it shall be so.” Not “I hope so” or “I’d like that.” No, the word “Amen” carries a certainty that is almost unparallel in any other language. And Christ says it twice here, indicating the greatness of His promise: the promise of enduring joy. 

“I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy away from you.” A three-fold promise: Christ will come to His faithful, they will rejoice, and their joy they experience will be unshaken. 

Following Him means taking the path He took. Loving Him means suffering as He suffered. We will experience great grief in this life, but there is more to the story, and that is the key – “your grief will become joy.” Not “it might.” It will. “Amen, amen, I say to you…”

This is the infallible hope of the Christian. Our joy does not come from worldly success or even spiritual consolation. Even if our lives are nothing but grief here on earth, that does not determine our eternity. Our joy comes from Christ’s promise. If we follow Him, we will emerge beyond grief into His joy. There will be grief, and that grief will become joy. Of those two things we can be absolutely certain – and the second part is infinitely more important. It is the promise of eternity with Him.

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